It’s important to know that we are a product of our own choices, and of course there are consequences for every wrong choice we make, this fact isn’t an exception when it comes to the matters of the heart and how we choose to play it. Every character that we demonstrate always have an implication whether directly or indirectly on us and in our relationship/marriage. Some of these unfortunate behaviors are highlighted below:
1)Misrepresentation Of Feminism: This has become really alarming, there are women who have portrayed feminism in the most wrongful manner! A woman must be respected that’s a fact and no man should be forced to respect the female gender cause naturally it is a courtesy every man should have towards the other gender. But for a wife to earn respect from her husband has got nothing to do with inappropriate struggling for power, if you want respect you command it! The most FRUITLESS way to prove a point to your man is by simply letting him know that you think he doesn’t know what he’s doing nor saying, double daring him, being a rival rather than a help mate, raising your voice at him to prove a point, being bitter, aggressive, unattractive and very challenging, all of that can be aptly classified as character flaws which isn’t what feminism is truly about. Being amicable is the way to go, a wise woman should know how her man is built, how he was made to operate, how he thinks and was made to function. If you act against his functionality you will inevitably repel him thereby ending up by your lonesome. That’s the implication of exhibiting this foolishness(By the way we do employ all phony feminists to desist from recruiting gullible women into their bitter association of divorced, frustrated phony feminist, live and let live)
2)Egoism: Excessive egoism demonstrated by a man is akin to the misrepresentation of feminism demonstrated by a woman. Any man who places egoism and pride above his feelings for his partner would end up just like his female counter part “alone!” Being excessively egoistic as a man and husband is simply abusing the place of leadership your woman let you have, you simply be a true leader who is ready to be kind, accommodating and humble in other to achieve what’s best for your marriage. If you fail to make your wife feel comfortable with your leadership skills you will rule alone at the top, cause she just won’t tussle your “manly” approach. Egoism makes you worship your own self rather than having the slightest consideration for her thoughts and her feelings, lucky enough if you get her to stay with you despite your abuse, you both will end up unhappy and you will loose the wise, intelligent and beautiful woman you once knew!( A plead to all egoistic men to desist from recruiting gullible men into their association of unwanted, unproductive married men)
3)Foolish Lifestyle Of Some Girls: We do have girls who are easily swayed away just by the reality of their gender, their sexiness and the power which they possess thanks to their “feminine ways” Incessant clubbing, one night stand and partying would eventually make you the lab rat for philandering guys and in worst cases for psychos. The implication of handling yourself to guys on the street or a fraudster on Instagram to use you will only leave you empty, devoured and dumped!
4)Choosing Financial Security Over Love: Money is good and of course a necessity however sadness is real! We ain’t no poverty team of hopelessness which is why we believe there is a hope for a tree if it be cut down that it will sprout again! So for a fact ye gullible men and women choosing gold over the man or woman who truly loves you and have proven their worth to you wouldn’t in anyway guarantee your future nor your happiness. Some women and men would rather marry their grandpa and grandma who controls and use them for the love of financial security, however they can’t eat their cake and have it. LLWTKG is less concerned about crying in a Ferrari or Tricycle because what matters to us is finding peace and joy with the ones we love. The outcome of prioritizing money over love will dump you in the loneliness of the greatest sorrow of regret. Wise men and women have said riches isn’t everything but poverty stricken men and women would say they’ll rather cry in a Lamborghini. Sadness is real it all depends on our choices!
5.)Misbehavior Towards The One You Love: Most times we see guys handling their relationship with levity and disrespect leaving their partner to beg for their affection and respect well at the end of the day she would take over from where you stopped cause the moment you decide to turn a new leave you might not find her where you would have loved her to be!…She is gone! Obedience is indeed better than sacrifice, once the trust is broken or the love is abused it’s so hard to rebuild or regain.
6.)Triangular Relationship: Stop forming a triangle in your relationship. We have people who always have this third person in their relationship, a side chick and for the ladies a side kick. Once you see that a guy is adding you to his conquest rather than making you the only one leave on time and stop wasting your time. Staying would only leave you in circles,uncertainty and you are most likely to loose him.
7.)Baby mama/Baby Daddy lifestyle: A lot of social media stars have ascribed success to having kids out of wedlock the implication of this is the drama and sometimes stigmatization and abandonment that comes with it. It’s a master-slave relationship once you are added to the league of his baby mamas. Before joining that queue have a rethink!
8.) Marrying the wrong person: We are products of our choices, good or bad! Some would choose their partner for various cheesy reasons and at the end of the day they discover how hard it is to leave under the same roof with the wrong one. Living with your partner would really show if indeed you are meant to be together or not which is why making the wrong choice would leave you living in hell on earth.
9.)Homewrecker turned wife: This is quite simple, wreck another woman’s or man’s home and definitely yours will be wrecked too!No mathematics no physics no organic chemistry lol
10.)Lack of care for your wife and kids: So you are amongst those heartless men who abandon their wife and kids when they flourish in wealth, well news flash the implication of this is latter sickness and poverty and the ones whom you abandon would become the ones you beg for their attention,care and forgiveness at the end. Do not sow the seed of unforgiveness in the hearts of those you are supposed to love! When all is said and done they are the only ones left! No sidechick would take good care of you when you are bed ridden simply because she ain’t getting anymore cash now!
11.)Double Dating: It leaves you highly confused not to mention that once a person discovers you were double dating while with them and they can’t handle been played for a fool you may loose your life or sanity to it that’s the implication cause it happens!
The Last But Certainly Not The Least;
12)Loan For A Wedding: Because this is serious you have to understand that making good financial decisions is a sure way to a peaceful heart, do not burden yourself lending loans for a day wedding ceremony, there’s no point accumulating debt for a wedding that is not even a financial investment. You must learn to cut your coat according to your size or you live to tell the story of how you paid a debt you did not owe!