You know, running your marriage with ego would only lead you astray and hurting. Couples must try to work things out, dialogue is a great tool for that. Most marriage abusers put ego first before consideration and logic. If you know you are wrong admit it, and adjust, don’t try to push the blame on him or her, if you were sincerely apologized to take it and move on. Ego is an enemy of true love and marital success!