If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have LOVE, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 1Corinthians 13:1

Show some Love!Let Our Love So Shine before ALL men!!!


This of course is the first of it’s kind on this blog, we are really delighted to have this Christmas special featuring Manny Pacquiao, his wife Jinkee and five lovely children. This makes it the second time we celebrating them on this blog, first as a #CoupleOfTheWeek now as #ChristmasWithThePacquiaos.

Jinkee posted these beautiful family pictures as they spend quality time together to celebrate the season with the caption;


“For a child is born to us, a son is given to us. The government will rest on his shoulders. And he will be called: Wonderful Counselor, d Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” Isaiah 9:6 🙏🎄 @ Nami Island 닭갈비 사랑 메밀국시

HotTopic: “For God So Loved The World”

For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son that “whosoever” believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life.

It’s pretty much obvious that God is not interested in forcing his unconditional love on anyone even though it is very precious and rewarding, imagine the gift of everlasting life! yet He isn’t forcing it on anyone, this should teach us all that no matter how much we are ready to love anyone, no matter the sacrifice we are ready to make for them, no matter how pure and unconditional we love them, how uncommon what loving gift we have for them, we must leave them with the choice to either accept it or not, enjoy it or not. We must understand that somebody not loving you back does not mean that what you have to offer is worthless, or that you are not enough either, you just might not be what they want even if you are what they really need to survive or live. We must let them come to choose us with all the good things we have got to offer them when they do.

Indeed true love never forces itself on others because it is simply selfless. So do not “force” your love on anyone otherwise abuse and unhappiness are inherent.

In this Yuletide take a moment to study the Love of God and take some clue from it! Let Love Lead!


If you are celebrating Christmas (with the love of your life) giving must be a part of it, take God for instance, He GAVE! -TKGOLD


So this is Christmas, what have you done?

You sent a text? you helped out? you gave? or perhaps you’ve only asked like you always do? Oh or just worn the new dashing dress? ate the unusual meal? drank the unusual drink? Or maybe you’ve shown love no matter how little? What have you done this Christmas???

LLWTKG can boldly say that so far today we’ve sown the seeds of wisdom!

#CupidSongOfTheWeek: Happy Christmas (War Is Over) by John Lennon….Covered by Celine Dion!!!

Hurray!!!So this is Christmas!
This song was recorded by rock and pop super icon John Lennon as far back as 1971. It has become a standard song during Christmas due to its endearing lyrics and commercial success. It has also been covered by other artistes most notably by Celine Dion the Woman with the piano voice! As you Sip/gulp your drink and munch on your Christmas foodies this song will not fail to put you in that Christmas euphoria!

TKGOLD loves and wishes you a Super Merry Christmas! Enjoy the lyrics!!! Picture us Singing…lol

So this is Christmas
And what have you done
Another year over
And a new one just begun
And so this is Christmas
I hope you have fun
The near and the dear one
The old and the young
A very Merry Christmas
And a happy New Year
Let’s hope it’s a good one
Without any fear
And so this is Christmas (war is over)
For weak and for strong (if you want it)
For rich and the poor ones (war is over)
The world is so wrong (now)
And so happy Christmas (war is over)
For black and for white (if you want it)
For yellow and red ones (war is over)
Let’s stop all the fight (now)
A very Merry Christmas
And a happy New Year
Let’s hope it’s a good one
Without any fear
And so this is Christmas (war is over)
And what have we done (if you want it)
Another year over (war is over)
A new one just begun (now)
And so happy Christmas (war is over)
We hope you have fun (if you want it)
The near and the dear one (war is over)
The old and the young (now)
A very Merry Christmas
And a happy New Year
Let’s hope it’s a good one
Without any fear
War is over, if you want it
War is over now



Oh Woman! NEVER give any man the right to control, manipulate and oppress you, whatever doesn’t go well with you kindly tell him immediately cause you are not meant to be walking on egg shells in that relationship, you have that freedom of expression as a person that you are! It’s a fact that some men think you can be tamed through oppression, manipulation and violence because he is your man and you are his woman but the truth is he doesn’t have that right, no man has to take off your light so his shines brighter, real men are not intimidated by a woman they simply carry her along. If you don’t give him the power to abuse and use you then there is absolutely nothing he can do about it! God has gifted you so you shine and be useful to your fullest capacity on earth. A real man is whom you’ve got if he lets you be you and do you.

As a matter of fact don’t stay there and drag authority with him simply walk out of his life immediately you sight such abusive &controlling traits, when they realize they are on the loosing end they will mellow down….At least you taught him that you are different, you do not deserve to suffer that much!

#HotTopic: Get Smart With The Things You Do For Love!!

OK we get it, it’s normal to fall in love and you feel like you wanna do and can do every and anything for the one you love, but the truth is we might regret some of our deeds while we may celebrate some if luck and wisdom is on our side, that’s the gospel truth according to LLWTKG.
For the sake of your sanity, these are some of the things you shouldn’t do for love just in case things later go south!
Draw A Tatoo: Yes, you are newly in love so it’s expected, but then it is ridiculous cause you never know who would eventually stay or leave. The feeling of love is expressive but you gotta be realistic with what burden your heart can bear in the long run otherwise, you might have a hard time letting go when the time comes and of course, for every relationship you are in and you draw a tattoo as a symbol of your undying love, you finally look like what you’ve been through. Think before you tattoo their name on that body of yours, you don’t wanna carry that curse around when you find out it was all a lie.
Spending Money Blindly: Ever heard that a fool and his money are soon parted? well a foolish lover and his (her) money are soon parted. When you become your partner’s ATM, so shamelessly that they keep asking for more and you keep on spending, know for a fact that you are just hosting a parasite. Don’t let what you term love leech you so badly. Being supportive with your money sure has it’s limit and honestly you should know when a person is leeching you, their entitlement mentality and manipulation are pretty much obvious. Shine your eyes, like Nigerians would say!
Disobeying Your Parents: You see, as a teen in love you need your parent’s recommendation and approval cause, the truth is they know better. Most often than not, when they go against your relationship they are simply shielding you from an impending danger. If you can’t do things the right way especially, just listen to them already cause, it never ends in praise. Teen or not!
Sex: If your body is so much of a big deal to you, if you consider it sacred and honourable, sleeping with him should be the last thing you should consider to “prove” your love, “waiting” is a great way to prove it anyways, so, for your own good, know what you invest in him or her when you are in love. The hustle for sex is real, so deception is on the high. You don’t wanna have that dirty feeling afterwards.
Getting Pregnant Before Marriage: Especially in Africa! I simply can’t get the logic behind getting pregnant for a man before marriage as a symbol of true love or whatever it means, for the love of love that’s too selfish to be tagged love. If he can’t do things rightly don’t let him do that to you. History have shown that they don’t care all they want is another victim, all they want is someone to trap. At the end you might be the loser so think twice.
Quit Working: How can it be logical to quit a legal job just to please a mortal man, who is susceptible to go broke like every other human being? Don’t give anyone that much of a control over your life, it’s plainly stupid unless you are lazy. It’s not something you can trust any man with. They ask you to stop working and you find out they can’t even do the needful. What if he becomes bossy, if he doesn’t even go broke, you then become handicapped in return. Please think twice.
All the above behavior, makes moving on the hardest thing to do so, we gotta be smart about what we do to demonstrate our love for one another.
Love you guys!

#CupidSongOfTheWeek: Fergin by Teni

“Fergin” is an accent word for Virgin that aside, it is a song by Teni which depicts a scenario where a guy tries to exploit the sexuality of a girl through petty lies such as I would put a ring on it. In this song, she chooses to be the smart one who declined his amorous advances, & unwilling to sacrifice her “innocence”….She sings I’m still a Fergin o wallahi I don’t know nothing ooo!!! Get smart! You might not know nothing but you should know your left from your right.

Not to forget her voice is soothing and the song itself is fun!