Three Ways To Avoid Being A Prey In A Relationship.
Anyone can be a prey in a relationship, whether a man or a woman. So, to avoid been preyed upon, see this, read this and let it sink.
Firstly, Do not raise their words above their actions. When a person, says I love you, I’d die for you, pay less attention to that compared to the things they do to you. Evaluate if there is any correlation between what they say and what they do.
If you paid more attention to their actions and less on their words, you won’t get confused, as a matter of fact, they wouldn’t be able to prey on you. All that matters is what they do not what they say cause ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS. That is why some people convey how they feel about you (hate or love) through their actions.
In other words PRIORITIZE THEIR ACTIONS and not THEIR WORDS. It is then left to them, as a form of responsibility to prioritize their OWN words cause that isn’t what you should be doing. Yours is to weigh their actions. It is when they hold their words in high esteem would they be able to respect it enough to do what they say. Remember TALK IS CHEAP.
Secondly, which is equally important, always REMEMBER NOT TO FORGET THAT LOVE DOES NOT PRIDE ITSELF IN WHAT DOES NOT SEEM RIGHT. Yes! Cause a lot of these predators are very manipulative, so when paying attention to their actions, remember that they are supposed to do what is right. Anything that seems otherwise you shouldn’t condone.
Thirdly, any person in a relationship who gives a bunch of excuses rather than make things happen is someone deceitful. In a relationship, piles of excuses is a bad omen. Deception is bad, in the cause of deception, time is lost and investment is lost on the part of the victim. Therefore, when a person keeps bringing excuses up in your dealings with them, you should be skeptical and act fast.
So from LLWTKGOLD that’s the way to go!