It’s a beautiful thing to be an independent person and even more an independent lady!
However, like insects to honey, there are opportunists attracted to seductive hosts who would like to prey endlessly if given the chance.
So, great independent women, let’s talk!
Dear independent women, you’re not a prey for irresponsible men. Do not make yourself available to ALL sort of men, simply because you have the money that THEY DON’T. If you lay your standard by the river side, you’d be left with building a relationship where you’re a host to a parasite. You’d be left to build a relationship where it takes two, all by yourself. As in, all alone.
Sweet Independent ladies, beware of men who would masculinize you. Such are dangerous to your emotional and financial wellbeing. They’ll use your money and the money they should be spending on you on DEPENDENT LADIES instead. They’ll cheat with the girls who DEPEND ON THEM FINANCIALLY. This is a deliberate attempt as they believe they need to “man” over someone. Because with you, they feel they are not man ENOUGH. However, it isn’t your fault they feel the incapacity to dream, to work hard and be self made.
Of course, you should be careful with the man who pretends to be OK with your status however, tries to TAME you. Do not let them make you feel like it’s a waste to be female and be independent cause, it isn’t. Nothing is as sweetly empowering as being able to meet your own needs.
Wonderful Independent ladies, in the course of NOT MINDING the financial status of your partner, make sure he is CONTENTED but NOT COMPLACENT. Contented because he’s okay with his money, he doesn’t control or manipulate you for yours. He doesn’t make your money his right. And not complacent for the fact that, he ISN’T LAID BACK. He works, dreams and doesn’t RELY on your money.
Independent ladies, know for a fact, your money cannot and should not keep a man. So, be you and have a choice! You do deserve a man who loves you for you and NOT for the weight of your pocket.
You sure don’t need to act small, talk small, just so you keep him by humility. Humility is respect and NOT degradation. There are many fabulous men attracted to fabulous women which is why you should not hide yourself.
Independent queens, do not look down on anyone. Be down to earth, however, do not be stupid. Give the one who doesn’t oppress you a chance. Give the men who believe in their dreams a chance. Give the men who are self made, who care about you a chance.
And lastly, dear independent ladies you MAY find a “rich” independent man too who has the qualities you want but, do not be obsessed over the idea of finding one with a pocket as yours.
You are fabulous, Love will find you, JUST THE WAY YOU ARE!
TKGOLD Said So Because We Know So! Cheers!