Lately, I’ve been pretty much exposed to the need to walk the platform of friendship with an ADMIRER before ever saying a “Yes.”
I’m sure when you’re done reading this, you can’t deny just how helpful it would have been if you had set the horse before the cart.
Without further ado! Let’s see the importance of friendship I discovered to be necessary.
1.) Friendship is a foresight:
By experience, I could tell the regret I would have nursed by being with some of the guys who had shown interest in me and plainly talked about wanting a relationship.
But do you know that as we graced the grass of friendship barefooted, these guys in their falsetto voice really made me understand and see what I’d be getting myself into if I had obliged their request.
They DIDN’T willingly reveal this or ask me to study them. However, I DID and my inference of them was “poor”.
Through friendship, I realized that their feelings weren’t as profound as they confessed, I mean “oh, he can’t even be there even after professing his undying love”, he’s already acting bossy all because he takes interest in me”.
I wouldn’t get a foresight of a tyranny and would go ahead and say yes, I would not get a foresight of a sexual predator and say yes still.
In all honesty, how many of your friends would you willingly date now since you know them to an extent? Just how many?
Hence, time is such a valuable factor in a relationship and more reason it is the only one that’ll give a guarantee of what’s ahead.
And friendship is buying you that time.
A necessary time that reveals to us what an ADMIRER or an admired person is ALL ABOUT and WILL be ALL ABOUT.
Anyone can use this to their advantage whether they’re already in love or not.
So, save yourself the heartbreak because some things are better left inexperienced.
2. Through friendship you can win him or her over:
The truth is, if they like you, friendship would not stop them from courting you.
Just so you know, courting here, is all about bestowing affections on a love interest in order to gain their affection in return.
So, whoever feels too calculative or magnanimous to do this, isn’t really in love as they claim. And you don’t have to argue it with them.
Did I fail to mention that, friendship shows your level of oneness? How far you go in agreement?
It does make you see, if you share the same idiosyncrasies and beliefs.
Oneness sure is what makes things work cause two cannot walk together unless they agree. Neither can they achieve anything without it.
So, when next you want to save yourself an unnecessary heartbreak just turn over to friendship. And when next you want to woo them, friendship is just there for you. Even when you want to check your compatibility, friendship “issagoal.”
So, the importance of friendship is no facade at all, therefore, do not be in a haste. Patience is a virtue in this case!
We hope you use that tool to your advantage cause everyone can afford it.